Returning Home (part two)
He sits a little quieter now, hands folded the way mine used to be when I waited for his advice. Time has softened him, just as it’s strengthened me.
I see it clearly now, the way love changes shape but never leaves.
“Dad,” I say, “let me tell you a few things I’ve learned.”
First, I want you to know I remembered who I was, because you taught me. On the days I almost forgot, your voice came back to me, steady and sure, reminding me that I was created with purpose and held by God long before I ever knew His name for it.
Second, I learned how peace feels. I chose people who didn’t make me smaller or louder, but safer. When love tried to confuse me, I walked away, because you showed me what steady love looks like.
Third, I stopped proving myself. I worked hard, yes, but I learned to rest. I learned that God doesn’t measure my worth by my exhaustion, and neither did you.
I forgive more easily now. That’s the fourth thing. Not because it’s always easy, but because I know bitterness steals more than it protects. I keep my boundaries strong, just like you taught me, kind heart, guarded soul.
Fifth, I learned to be still. In the quiet moments, when life broke my heart or surprised me with joy, I heard God the way you promised I would.
He was there. Every time.
Sixth, I waited for love that stayed. Love that met me eye to eye and walked beside me. The kind of love you modeled without ever calling it a lesson.
And lastly, Dad, thank you for never letting me believe I wasn’t loved , wasn’t enough and wasn’t alone.
Even now, I feel it. God still goes before me. And your love? It follows me everywhere.
I lean in, just like I did years ago, and realize something:
You didn’t just raise a daughter.
You raised a woman who knows how to love, trust, and believe.
All because of the man you are.
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